How to Establish a "Hope-less Recovery"
That's right . . .a "hope-less recovery"! The mark of life-long sobriety!
Trust me - everyone who ever thinks of getting clean and sober wants to have a "hope-less" recovery!
Do you? Think about it for a moment. To "hope" for recovery or "hope" I maintain my sobriety is to acknowledge that it is beyond my control to get and stay clean and sober.
Since continued substance use and relapse is a willful manifestation of my thought life, I do not have to use or relapse. Therefore, "hope" has no place in my arsenal.
I don't "hope" I stay sober, I do stay clean and sober!
If you lack confidence, you may have a hopeless recovery. That is, you may be despairing of ever achieving a strong, progressive recovery.
If you possess actionable skills and believe in your ability to manage yourself, you don't hope - you do! -Ed
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